Malicious Intent of Mr G in Providing "Evidence" to a SGS Top Leader (Part 1 of 3)

G 先生向 SGS 最高领导人提供“证据”的恶意（第 1 部分，共 3 部分）

Our editors have been following the recent development in SGS and the reading articles posted from hosshakukempon.com website in awe. We would like to repost it here.

本网站的编辑一直在关注 SGS 的最新发展，并阅读 「发迹现本」网站发布的文章。我们想在这里重新转发。

This first series of 3 article seems to be on the source of the alleged "evidence" that SGS top leaders have against this study group, which they have labeled a faction. Mr G, an MD member, gave and twisted these to a certain top leader, who is more than happy to use it as revenge for a personal grudge more than 10 years ago. Mr G acted with malice to exact revenge on his ex-wife, Ms J, who had requested a divorce after being subjected to an abusive marriage.

本网站的编辑一直在关注 SGS 的最新发展，并阅读 hossakukempon.com 发布的文章。我们想在这里重新转发。第一个系列的 3 篇文章似乎是关于壮年 G 提供了扭曲的资料以便让某位SGS高级干部复仇。这些资料正好让高级干部用来对付一个自行学习的小组。据说，G 是因为想对他的前妻J 报复而恶意行事。

[The following are extracted from www.hosshakukempon.com]

Hello everyone, HK had received an anonymous email that we think closely associated with the ongoing issues within SGS.  This is another side of the story.  We will break down the mail into 3 parts, this is part 1 of 3.

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Hi Hosshaku Kempon,
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Thank you for providing us with this opportunity to tell our side of the story.

This communication is intended to clarify the source of the alleged "evidence" that SGS top leaders have against this study group, which they have labeled a faction. Mr G, an MD member, gave and twisted these to a certain top leader, who is more than happy to use it as revenge for a personal grudge more than 10 years ago.

We believed Mr G acted with malice to exact revenge on his ex-wife, Ms J, who had requested a divorce after being subjected to an abusive marriage.
 
THREATS OF DIVORCE AND AGGRESSION

Ms J phoned my friend, a mere acquaintance, in tears in July 2019, just two months after their marriage. Mr G blamed Ms J for the cause of their disagreement. He even removed his wedding band and threatened to divorce her. Ms J had reached out to my friend, asking if she could get some of Mr G's buddies to persuade him to have a heart-to-heart open dialogue with Ms J to address the matter between them instead of cutting her off.

When Ms J got home from work later that day, she discovered she was locked out of their house because Mr G placed a new padlock on the door. Mr G clearly intended to convey a strong message to Ms J that he had cut her off totally. She was abandoned outside, exposed and wondering what she had done to deserve such treatment. She sought sanctuary at my friend’s house out of desperation. At around 11pm when she returned to check, the padlock was removed and she was able to return home.
 
UNREASONABLE BEHAVIOUR

Over the next 2 years, Mr G’s erratic behaviour became more apparent. Whenever he was triggered, he would either give Ms J the silent treatment or respond to her with sarcasm for days or even weeks. Even simple whatsapp messages about daily meals and childcare arrangements (for Ms J's girls from her first marriage) would frustrate Ms J since Mr G would choose whether or not to respond based on his whims and fancy. 

There were a few incidents that my friend was aware of that illustrated Mr G’s unreasonable behaviour:

(1) Possessive Behaviour

Throughout their marriage, Mr G attempted to control who Ms J could meet and would purposely make things difficult when she did meet up with her friends or members. My friend remembered this incident in which Ms J had failed to report to Mr G about her whereabout via whatsapp upon arrival at the WD’s house for a home-visit. He spammed her phone with messages. By about 9.30pm, when the dialogue ended and Ms J finally took out her phone to check her messages, she was shocked Mr G had blocked her on whatsapp, blaming her for being insensitive to his concern. My friend could still remember vividly the look of distress on Ms J’s face the moment she realized the husband shut her out again.

When Mr G and Ms J argued, he would occasionally accuse her of having an affair with another man or sarcastically state how her ex-husband must have felt when she was still with him. Occasionally, he would also snoop through her phone and messages, justifying it when discovered, saying she had previously given him her password. Every time he was not happy, he would ask her to move back to her mum’s place.

There was once where they had a disagreement the night before with tensions carried over into the morning. Ms J made the decision to work from her mother’s house but Mr G forbade her to and locked her work backpack in the room with him. She repeatedly pleaded with Mr G to return her possessions but was coldly rejected. Again, without her money, phones, car key, or work laptop, she was in a difficult predicament. Ms J had to walk across the estate to my friend’s house for assistance in order to inform her superior that she had to apply for leave that day and also to get in touch with her brother so he could assist in arranging childcare for her girls.

To be continued...

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破邪显正编辑 （HK）收到了匿名电邮让我们联想到目前SGS的一些行动跟这位电邮中提及的男主人翁有关。 我们会将此事件分成三部曲。

电邮的内容如下：

HK,
壮年 G 提供了扭曲的资料以便让某位SGS高级干部复仇。这些资料正好让高级干部用来对付一个自行学习的小组（这小组也被标签为学会不被承认的分派）。

我们相信G 是因为想对他的前妻J 报复而恶意行事。 （J早前因G使用“暴力“而无奈向他提出离婚）
 
离婚的威胁与施暴

J，2019年，仅2个月婚后，拨电给我的朋友F哭诉他们的婚姻。G怪J是造成他们婚姻的不和谐。G还扬言与J离婚。J因此向F要求是否能让G的死党劝说G，让他俩好好对话。

当晚，下了班回到家，她被G锁在屋外，因为G换了把锁。G就是刻意发出这样的强烈信息告诉J，他要跟他来个了断！J深深地思量她到底犯了什么错？无奈，J只能暂时到F的家，深夜后再回去碰碰运气。。。幸好门锁被打开了，她才能回家。

无理的举动

接下来的两年，G 古怪的行径更加明显了。一旦触发到他, 他便故意冷落J，不然就冷嘲热讽，这可长达几周。就连J的简单信息都会惹恼了他 。

F 有几个例子可举例G的无理取闹 ：

(1) 占有欲强

G想要控制J，刻意刁难她和朋友或学会员碰面。F记得有一回，J忘了向G禀报她的去向，他便频发信息给她。直到9.30PM 妇人部家访结束后，J被他的一堆的信息震惊到。G还把她挡/封闭了，责怪她不应允他的需求。F还记得J在当下的神情！

每回当G和J争吵时，他必污蔑她红杏出墙，也讽刺她说就是因为她的所为，J的前夫肯定如同深受。时不时，G也会偷看她的手机，也要求她给出手机密码。 每当不愉快，就让她滚回娘家！

有一晚的不和之后，局势升温至隔天。 J打算到母亲家办公，但G反而不让，还把她的公事包锁在她的房里头。尽管J苦苦恳求他，G就是不把包还给她。迫于无奈，身无分文的J只能走向F的住处，寻求F帮她打给上司要求请假，和要求家人另作接送孩子的安排等
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(未完待续)